The honest truth is if you look at the people that are staying here the majority are men. There have been a few females, fewer couples are here during the week. And if there are more we don't see them in the public areas much for the meals that are provided by our hotel. Granted, this changes on the weekend when we see more families. But for extended stay there a couple of families, a few couples, a few (travelling single) women, and a bunch of (travelling single) men... of all different nationalities.
One morning Miss L asks, "Why do some women go to work?"
"Because some women need to do that to help their families, or they don't have children to stay home with. That's the decision some women want or need to make," I replied.
"So, what happens to their children when they go to work?"
I do my best to explain a day care center and the option of a babysitter (which she understands a bit more fully) and that some children are old enough to go to a public school.
Her eyes teared up. She told me that she was sad that some children didn't get to spend the whole day with their mom or dad.
"I always want you to be my teacher, Mama."
My eyes fought back tears and I was overwhelmed by her love.
I grew up in a single parent home. My dad did the best he could but that had to include a mix of private day care, "regular" day care, and baby sitters. I didn't know anything different. I thought it was a natural part of everyone's childhood. It wasn't until we moved from Albuquerque to Los Lunas that I met other kids who had a mom that stayed home. It was AWESOME. I was jealous for a time but understood that was not at all how it could work in our house. I understand that for some it just isn't an option. However, now that my husband has blessed me and our children with the opportunity for me to stay home I do thin kit is the best option. Many people have made great sacrifices to be at home with their children... while it may indeed be a great sacrifice in some areas it has the best return on the investment by far.